Traditional Afghan Weddings
When a man and a woman wants to get married in Afghan culture,
the guy sends their family over to the girls family for a marriage proposal.
Once the parents of the girl, has accept the proposal, the girls side of the
family gives chocolates to the eldest of the guys side of the family. The
chocolates basically represents that the girls side of the family has accepted
the proposal.
However, after the acceptance, the girls side of the family
organises and engagement party for everyone to celebrate with the immediate family
and friends. Thus, the engagement party also follows on the khina (henna)
night, which is only ladies night where all the lady can dance. That the henna
night, the bride usually wears the traditional afghan clothes, whereas, the
groom wear Jami (which is traditional afghan pants and a shirt) with a lungy (traditional
Afghan hear gear). As for the bride family and the groom’s family, the girls
usually wear the afghan traditional clothes and silver jewellery that goes with
the traditional clothes. That evening of the henna night, it’s celebrated with
afghan dancing and the afghan traditional dance called the ‘Attan’.
As part of the afghan tradition at the henna night, the bride closes her hand and the groom’s mother will try to open her hand. If she does not manage to open the bride’s hand, the bride will then receive an expensive gift from the groom’s side of the family. Then, it’s time for the khina where the bride and the groom’s side applies it on the bridges hand.
Finally, after all that the wedding night arrives. While some
people have the wedding during the day, whereas, with the Afghans they usually
celebrate their weddings during the night. During the day they will celebrate a
ceremony called the ‘nikah' (religious ceremony). This is where the bride wears
a green dress and accepts the bride accepts the groom to her lawful husband and
the groom accepts the bride as his wife.
Although, after the Nikah the bride then wears a white dress
and the grooms wear a suit. The bride and the grooms them goes to a beautiful
location to take photos before going to the reception. When all the guests have
arrived, the bride and grooms enter with the traditional afghan song for the
bride and groom. Once they have arrived, that’s when the party starts. Before
the bride and groom cuts the cake, the sister of the bride side does a
traditional afghan knife dance. While the sister of the bride is doing the knife
dance she is also asking for money of the groom (brother in law). Hence, once
her groom had given his sister in law the money, she gives the knife to the
groom. Then, the groom and the bride gets to cut the cake.
After the end of the wedding, it is time for the bride to
leave her mothers and fathers house. At the end of the wedding when the bride
is saying bye before she actually leaves the brides brother ties a green cloth around
her waist. After that has been done, the bride then goes with the groom to
their house.
By: Shabnam Mangal
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i want chocolates too ;) lol anyway this is a very interesting culture but i have one question, the lobola part what happens there?
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